Friday, September 11, 2009

How To Deal With Sorrow and Sadness

Depression.. I'm Depressed. It Sucks. Help Me.
by Jeff Cohen

While the term depression has been so commonly used that people tend not to take it seriously anymore, it is a very serious condition that can impair one’s life. Depression is very difficult. It can debilitate your normal functions, making even the most mundane tasks such as getting out of bed or eating breakfast seemingly difficult. It is sad to think that a lot of depressed individuals are not treated because of the high costs of therapy.

However, coping with depression is still possible without professional help if you know depression management. Here are a few things that can help you deal with depression, it is important to note however, that professional therapy is still very invaluable with serious depression. These steps are just suggestions for alleviating your condition.

Staying active is one way to take your mind off depression. Primarily, activities help distract you from whatever it is that is causing your depression and it also helps channel unspent energies that build up when you are depressed. Keeping active also releases endorphins – natural mood boosters that somehow cheer you up.



It is also important to take a rest. Being depressed can be very exhausting, so it is essential to regain strength and energy if you are to deal with depression. Relaxation techniques can help you be more attuned to the self and be more at peace. When resting, stressors should be kept away from the bedroom so that ample rest can be obtained.

You should also express your emotions. Depression usually results from suppressed emotions. People who are grieving can be prone to depression if they keep their emotion to themselves. A lot of people avoid crying because they think it might be a sign of weakness. However, it is important to cry because it releases your emotions.

When expressing feelings, it is important to avoid catharsis – venting up your anger by doing something violent like boxing, smashing things, and the like. Catharsis does not release your emotion, especially anger. Rather, it makes you practice violence as an expression of emotion, and thus can be very dangerous.

Hang around with friends and loved ones. Depressed individuals need support very much. Other people can distract one from stressors. They can remind you that there is more to life, and it is worth living even if it is simply because of the company of wonderful people.

Lastly, it is important to believe in yourself. A lot of people get depressed because they put themselves down. It is important to satisfy yourself and gain a sense of self-worth. It is good to do something that will make you happy. Prioritizing yourself can help you to believe that your own life is important and can be enjoyed. Being kind to yourself is one of the most important steps to get out of a depressive state.

Depression management is possible and entails taking charge of yourself. When dealing with depression however, it is important not to rush. Sadness does not disappear overnight; it takes time to get back on your feet. Little by little, you can get out of depression and have a normal life once more.

~ I try to apply this for myself... but I'm not really successful... Well, maybe it will work for others... Have a try...

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